by satinisle » Sat Feb 15, 2025 2:51 pm
This was handled by Romana, but due to the authentication issue with the forum right now, I am just copying the logs here:
romanatcolgate Reply 1 week ago
Hello, again. Any further correspondence will be through the modmail with me, we don't handle ban appeals in DMs. So, the first thing that jumps out as me is that you don't actually seem to understand why what you did was wrong. From my notes you seemed to log in, say nothing to anyone, fed yourself to someone SSD, logged out, then failed to respond to a mod mail when I wanted to know more.
So let me pick up where I left off, first of all, what exactly was your thought process in doing this? -Why- did you do this?
boogersniffer 1 week ago
I was pretty anti social still am but it's better then before and also did it to get belly text inspiration for my own bellies
romanatcolgate Reply 1 week ago
Alright, well this also wasn't the first time you had been warned about messing with SSD people. Why did you think it was OK?
boogersniffer 1 week ago
I don't remember seeing a warning before
as for why I thought it was okay to do so because I didn't see anything about them saying no feeding yourself while ssd in there ooc notes but looking back on it I realize I was in the wrong. Just cause nothing may have been there doesn't mean it's okay for me to do so unless said otherwise in there notes.
romanatcolgate Reply 1 week ago
Yes. Unless it's explicitly mentioned that it's OK, assume it's not OK to fuss with SSD players at all. Including feeding yourself to them, that can grossly squick someone out and be very upsetting if they came back to that. If I unban you I want you to be careful in the future about respecting OOC consent. Forcing yourself on someone when they're not around to consent is actually just bad in a lot of ways, not least of which is that it's kinda' sexual assault.
Also, if you're antisocial still this also might not be the best server for you, as a note. We do focus a lot on RP and social interaction over most other things, if you're not up for interacting with folks you probably won't have a terrible amount of things to do here.
Do you understand everything I wrote? Do you got any questions?
boogersniffer 1 week ago
I understand everything, and I have no more questions
romanatcolgate Reply 1 week ago
Alright. I'll go ahead and lift the ban then, you should be able to log on soon.