Banned From Sever and Discord
Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2023 11:24 pm
Byond account and character name: tonyvld
Discord ID (if applicable):tonyvld
Banning admin: tankthebirb
Ban type (What are you banned from?): Server and station ban
Ban reason given: DMing someone who left the Discord Server.
Ban length: Permanent
Approximate date that the ban was placed (including time zone): Banned on 7/25/2023 at around 10:40 EST
Your side of the story: I had seen a character on station that I was interested in, but the round was coming to an end and I was curious to see if they were up for a meet and greet. Not RP or anything, just a meet and greet and at the time I was already a ghost and leaving for food. I looked them up in the server to @ them, so I could see if they'd be ok with this. I found them and seen they had left the discord server. But, like an idiot I DM'd them directly.They promptly cursed me out. No further attempts at contact with them was made on my end after answering their questions.
Why you think you should be unbanned: I know what I did was wrong, I shouldn't be looking THAT hard for ANYONE. If they leave, then they've left and I need to let it be. My intentions aren't what matters, what matters is I did something very stupid and tried contacting someone who had left. It was dumb, it was creepy. I won't reach out to others unless they reach out to me or send me their discord, in round. Like it should be. I'm an idiot for going to that extent, and it's a mistake I won't be making ever again, as I know others have their reasons for leaving and I need to respect that. I understand that what I did was wrong and why. We discussed how it goes past creepy. It's a violation of privacy that makes people feel insecure and will drive people off from the community. Even if that is not my intent. I hope this message reaches you all well, and I understand that the reason why I did this is unacceptable. As it could make someone uncomfortable, since they don't know who I am, and a random DM from someone is just weird. It won't happen again.
Discord ID (if applicable):tonyvld
Banning admin: tankthebirb
Ban type (What are you banned from?): Server and station ban
Ban reason given: DMing someone who left the Discord Server.
Ban length: Permanent
Approximate date that the ban was placed (including time zone): Banned on 7/25/2023 at around 10:40 EST
Your side of the story: I had seen a character on station that I was interested in, but the round was coming to an end and I was curious to see if they were up for a meet and greet. Not RP or anything, just a meet and greet and at the time I was already a ghost and leaving for food. I looked them up in the server to @ them, so I could see if they'd be ok with this. I found them and seen they had left the discord server. But, like an idiot I DM'd them directly.They promptly cursed me out. No further attempts at contact with them was made on my end after answering their questions.
Why you think you should be unbanned: I know what I did was wrong, I shouldn't be looking THAT hard for ANYONE. If they leave, then they've left and I need to let it be. My intentions aren't what matters, what matters is I did something very stupid and tried contacting someone who had left. It was dumb, it was creepy. I won't reach out to others unless they reach out to me or send me their discord, in round. Like it should be. I'm an idiot for going to that extent, and it's a mistake I won't be making ever again, as I know others have their reasons for leaving and I need to respect that. I understand that what I did was wrong and why. We discussed how it goes past creepy. It's a violation of privacy that makes people feel insecure and will drive people off from the community. Even if that is not my intent. I hope this message reaches you all well, and I understand that the reason why I did this is unacceptable. As it could make someone uncomfortable, since they don't know who I am, and a random DM from someone is just weird. It won't happen again.