Okay, so, now that we've come to a happy medium, I am posting this here for other's reference beyond Dragor's.
I work full time now and tend to do twelve hour days. There are times where I will drop all pretences and work to get as much scene time as I can in, this sometimes effects the character.
Haskel is meant to be reserved, but he is a worshipper of a hedonistic god that supports the indulgence of vices. I encourage people, particularly admins, yes that includes Sling, to simply message me privately and advise me to reign it in. Simply saying, "Reign it in." in an admin message, in private, will go far further than literally anything else you will do, that is my personal advice knowing what I am like.
That being said, I consider the issue resolved now and I thank everyone involved for their contributions as it's made me aware of things that people probably should have just stated earlier, but you know, hindsight is 20/20 and whatnot. I hope to improve this in the future.