Tonyvld QC Ban

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Re: Tonyvld QC Ban

Postby Mr_Signmeup » Tue Jun 08, 2021 6:42 pm

I'm in the same boat as the other admins. Returning with the reputation you have would not be an enjoyable experience for you. Most members know about the infamous incident and most likely, they'll avoid you. Not out of maliciousness but; "Oooh, it's that guy... Eeeh, oooh. Better not take the risk."

I rather be ensured you'll have a good time if you return to the community but I have severe doubts about it. I prefer to spare you from the grisly experience of social ostracism

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Re: Tonyvld QC Ban

Postby tonyvld » Sun Jun 13, 2021 3:48 am

Thank you Mr_Signmeup, quite honestly it was how I read Nerd's response as well, it's not that he's against my return, but like you, would rather me return at such a time when people either forget about the incident or let it go, and believes it's going to be one of those things that will be on my reputation forever and cause a fair bit of people either discomfort or just straight up cringe and avoid me altogether and I understand that and I appreciate that you guys are just looking out for my better interest. I understand it's going to be a long up hill climb as well, I figured for the most part, people will kinda just stand off to the side and let me do my own thing and avoid me out of not wanting to risk a creepy interaction. But I still would like to try, I know it's going to be a good while before things ever get better, but I have changed and I know once people do see I'm not the same person that did all the shit I've done in the past, that things will finally get to a moving on point. I know it'll take a long time before such a time comes about, but as the old saying goes "Rome wasn't built in a day." so I'm aware my welcome back isn't going to be a warm one, but I'm ready to face it. You can destroy someone's faith in you in a millisecond and it can take a long time to rebuild that faith and trust. And as a changed person, I'm ready to start rebuilding that trust and faith. I know it looks bad, and I'm aware you guys are trying to let me know I'm pretty much going to have a rough go of it. But when someone has done alot of bad, and then take time to self reflect on their actions and how they've been, and change for the better, everyone will be skeptical at first, but over time most will come around to the fact the person did in fact change. Now I'm no fool, and I know it's not gonna be all butterflies and rainbows, I know that some are not going to believe I've changed no matter what they see or hear, and I'm also aware that some will even acknowledge the change to a better person, but will still choose to avoid me due to all the things I've done, things like that are to be expected when you've been a total dickwad like I was.
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